Now Is The Best Time Of Your Life


This is an article written by Elaine Ambrose and I wanted to share it with you. Life is full of happy times, challenging situations and change is always inevitable. I believe that a positive attitude makes all the difference, no matter what age or circumstance surrounds us. Hope you enjoy and may this be, right now, the best time of your life!                                                                                                                               

During the week, July 20, 1969, I was a counselor at a camp in the Sawtooth Mountains of Idaho. That’s the day American astronaut Neil Armstrong became the first human to walk on the surface of the moon. We loaded the young campers into buses and drove them to a parking lot in the remote mountain town of Ketchum. A small black-and-white TV was hooked up in the parking lot with the power cord strung inside a grocery store. We huddled around to watch history being made 240,000 miles from earth. Even the most rambunctious pre-teen became speechless while watching the grainy transmission.

“This is the best time of your life,” I told them.

Four years later, I graduated from college, earned my first full-time job, and got married. Then I knew it was the best time of my life.

As the years passed, there were other milestones: a new house, a new baby, a new job. Then more houses, another baby, and more jobs. Then I received a contract to write a book. Could it get any better?

Of course, there were painful times, too. A divorce. The loss of a job. The deaths of my parents. I lost friends. I was badly injured in a car wreck. Those were the days I doubted if there would be good times again. When dark clouds hid the stars and moon, I had nothing to wish upon, and I almost lost hope.

But another day brought adventure and happiness. The kids grew up, were happily married, and had wonderful children. I discovered a wonderful world of new women friends. Surely, then was the best time of my life.

Wrong again.

I recently returned from a trip to New York. I received a writing award and was on stage in front of thousands of conference attendees. The same day of the award, I met with a New York literary agent who offered to represent me with my next book. I know for the next few months I’ll be writing into the wee hours, and I’ll pause to gaze at the moon with the same wonder and amazement that I felt 46 years ago.

Now is the best time of my life. This day.  And, tomorrow could be even better, so I am willing to anticipate that happening. I’m 63-years-old, and I’m not done. There are grandkids to hug, books to write, adventures to take, friends to spend time with and charities that need my time and resources. But right here, right now, it’s the best ever.

Someday, when I’m older and grayer, I’ll rock by moonlight and knit magical sweaters from moonbeams.

Then, for sure, it will be the best time of my life.

Laura Kay House, MA, is the founder and owner of Silver Connections, located in the Triangle area of North Carolina. Silver Connections provides numerous socializing opportunities through events and travel, personal service, quality members and connections for age 55+ (mostly Boomers!) active and single adults.